Moving to Texas

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My husband Derek and I have moved to Houston, Texas. This blog will be a way for friends and family to see what we are up to.

Derek  is pursuing MFA in Studio Art – with a concentration of graphic design at the  University of Houston. It is a three year program. While he is in school, I am working as a Publication Editor for Houston Community Newspapers, a division of the Houston Chronicle.

It has been an adventure, and a culture shock for sure. We have moved from Wellsboro, Pennsylvania, which has a population of about 3,300, to Houston, the fourth largest city in the U.S., population 2.1 million.

A new blog

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Hello followers! I have set up a new blog.

Please come on over and follow our Tennessee adventures at http://www.sceniccityblog.com

You will notice that some of the posts are the same as what you’re reading here on Texas Tales. I thought it would make a good transition, and after all, our lives are still currently crisscrossed over two states.

The blog is still the bare minimum for now, please bear with me as I customize it through the next few days.

Happy reading!

One is the loneliest number…

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Derek’s in Chattanooga, and I’m in Houston. We’re both alone, but Derek got the better end of the deal. He’s got all our furniture (not to mention the bed) and the cats too, so he’s surrounded by familiar things.

I guess I could say that my cot, and my folding lawn chair are familiar too, but that’s all I’ve got.

It’s hard having the minimum, and because Derek left in a bit of a hurry, we didn’t exactly think about who would need what the most. Derek has complained about wanting the shower caddy, and an extra trash can, which I still have, and I have gone through the motions of trying to microwave something without having a microwave!

It hasn’t been too bad though. We’re already down to 30 days left at most. One month left.

I’ve settled into a routine, which isn’t too different than the routine we had when we were together. I get home from work, cook dinner, and then watch an episode of something through a streaming service. I have gotten into The Last Czars on Netflix, a miniseries about the Romanov family. Then I usually read, and chat with Derek through FaceTime.

Before I know it, it is time for bed. Once I’m settled, I watch YouTube videos. I have settled on watching the YouTube channel Super Carlin Brothers, which features videos on Harry Potter, Disney, etc. Each night I have watched them go head to head on various Harry Potter quizzes. Last night’s video was a Christmas themed quiz. There are so many quizzes that I’ve been watching them for a week straight, and there are enough to go on for another week at least.

Sleeping on the cot isn’t uncomfortable, but I would prefer my own bed. I alternate between sleeping well and not sleeping well. I have been having anxiety dreams about job prospects. I hope that something will work out in real life sooner than later.

To miss or not to miss

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I have been thinking about the things I will and will not miss about Houston. Here’s a list:

Things I will miss:

The rodeo, and its cheap country concerts
Hermann Park and the Arboretum (Now there will be mountain trails to hike though)
Our many favorite eateries: Phoencia, La Madeleine’s, Niko Nikos, New York Coffee Shop, to name a few.
Pit stops at Buc-ees
Going to Galveston Island and the beach
Cajun food (I found restaurants in Chattanooga that serve gumbo, let’s see if it’s just as good…)
Kolaches
Bluebonnets

Things I will not miss:

Traffic
Traffic in rain
Terrible drivers (I sense a pattern here…)
Flooding
Generally living in a massive city
No fall foliage
Grackles (a very big, squawk-y bird that’s native to this area)

Off to Tennessee

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We’re moving!

Texas Tales will soon be no more. Stay tuned for a link to a new blog…

Derek got a job as a full-time lecturer of graphic design at the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga.

Derek had three applications out, one to Chattanooga, and two others in the Houston area. He made it to the second round of interviews for all three positions. I’m proud of him.

The other two jobs did not work out, and staying in Houston certainly would have been easier, but we are both happy with this outcome.

For as long as I can remember, I have said that I would like to live in Tennessee, and now that’s happening.

I can’t speak for Derek much, but Chattanooga seems like the perfect place for me.

I am glad that Chattanooga is still south enough that the winters are mild, but there will be more variation in the seasons now. I am most excited to see some decent fall foliage. Chattanooga is nicknamed Scenic City, and what could be more perfect for someone who loves the outdoors?

There was also a series of Civil War battles in the area during the Chattanooga campaign, in Oct-Nov. of 1863. As a Civil War buff, I am excited to get to explore these places.

Chattanooga is a travel hub, being close to many different cities. Atlanta, Huntsville, Knoxville and Nashville are all about two hours away. I am looking forward to exploring a new and wide area of the country.

One of the things that I miss the most about Pennsylvania is the mountains. Chattanooga is in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains, and one of the Civil War Battles occurred on nearby Lookout Mountain.

There is a Riverfront area – the Tennessee River flows through Chattanooga – with farmers markets, restaurants, parks, a pedestrian bridge, kayak rentals and summer concerts.

Yes, I think I will like it there.

I know that Derek will like the fact that Chattanooga has the fastest internet in the United States, and at an affordable price too. Chattanooga is also the first city to have its own typeface – an interesting fact for someone who loves typography.

I will definitely miss Houston, but knowing that I will like Chattanooga makes it easier to say goodbye.

There is a lot that we did not get to do. Unfortunately, there was not enough money, and not enough time. Perhaps we can come back for a visit someday.

Hopefully this will be remedied, with us having two incomes, and Derek not having to work on his master’s thesis on the weekends anymore. Plus, we hope to stay in Chattanooga for longer as well.

The moving process is not ideal, but we’re making our way through the details. We found a nice apartment complex in a close by suburb. The floor plan is bigger, nicer, and cheaper than our current place in Houston.

Derek is leaving on Wednesday the 31st. He is taking mostly everything, including the cats, with him in a rental truck, and towing one of the cars behind it. I will be sleeping on a cot in an empty apartment.

We had to sign a 60 day vacate notice, and because we had little notice ourselves, this means we have our apartment until Sept 12.

If I can’t find a job before then, I will keep working at the Chronicle up until that date. I do hope that we do not have to be separated for the full amount of time, which is 42 days.

There may be a few more posts on this blog, but thank you to all the readers who have followed us on this journey. I hope you’ll continue to read about our new adventures in Chattanooga.

Otis Book Fair

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Earlier this summer, Derek’s thesis work was accepted to be shown at the 2019 Otis College of Art and Design Book Fair in Los Angeles.

I dropped him off at the airport and he was off for the long 4th of July weekend. Yes, he did experience one of the big earthquakes that southern California experienced!

The fair featured student and visiting exhibitors as well as lectures by visiting designers who were currently teaching at the college.

Derek had a good experience. He said that everyone enjoyed his work, and a lot of people asked questions. He sold some of his artwork too! The emoji stickers were a big hit.

He also got to talk with other designers, and he brought home some artwork that he will be able to hang up in his new office… (more about that later!)

It was a great experience for him. He had hoped to publish his work in some type of format, and this accomplishes that. It was good timing because he was able to mention that he was involved with the book fair during job interviews.

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Sicily vacation

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I have dreamed about a vacation in Sicily, Italy for about 10 years. I have a long, detailed bucket list of vacations, and Sicily was always number one. When I was younger, the family was trying to piece together the family tree. My grandma told me that my Grandpa’s mother, Concetta, was from Ragusa, Sicily. I googled “Ragusa” and beautiful pictures of a village in the cliff side popped up. Right then and there I knew I would go there someday.

That someday is now, or two weeks ago at this point. I can’t believe that something I have looked forward to for so long is now over. But I have the memories, the souvenirs and all 2,500 photos!

We spent six days with a tour group and guide. Ragusa was on the itinerary, but we would only be there for a few hours. I asked my Aunt and Uncle, who were coming with us, “Could we please spend some extra time in Ragusa, separate from the tour,” to which they obliged. They said it was my dream trip, and I needed to make sure I got everything I wanted out of it.

We flew to Rome on a Thursday night. It was the longest flight I’ve ever been on. It was thrilling to hear the flight attendants and the captains speak in both English and Italian. We then had a connecting flight from Rome to Catania, Sicily. The flight to Catania was a short one. When we crossed over the coastline, I cried. And I cried some more. I was on the left side of the plane and I had a perfect view of Mt. Etna, the volcano, out of my window.

We spent Friday and Saturday in Ragusa before joining up with the tour. As I mentioned previously, the old town part of the city is in a limestone cliff. Ragusa is split into two sections, the modern section, called Ragusa Superiore, and the old section, Ragusa Ibla. We stayed in Ragusa Ibla. Our hotel, San Giorgio Palace, was literally in the cliff. Because of this, there were different levels in which to enter the hotel. Our GPS did not understand this. She must have gotten quite mad at us when she recalculated 4-5 times! We actually drove past the one entrance multiple times, but missed the small gold plaque designating the place. Ragusa Ibla is less than a mile wide, and getting lost in that half hour’s time, we saw most of Ibla. One we finally figured things out, we were ready to explore to our hearts content.

I had a list of five main things that I wanted to see while in Ragusa. We were able to see all of it within a few hours. It could have been quicker than that, but we got lost so many times! But I think getting lost is the best way to see things.

The best thing that we did in Ragusa, was not even expected until a week before we left on the trip. My Aunt Susie called her cousin, who then called another cousin, Sal, who was born in Ragusa, and immigrated to the U.S. when he was 30. Sal remembered that he grew up at 16 Via Sant’Alberto, and his mother (Josephine, Concetta’s sister) and his grandmother, were born two doors down. Wow! I had set out to find out as much information about my Great Grandma Concetta as I could, but I don’t think I could have been hopeful enough for an actual street address.

Now, Sal did not remember which direction two doors down Concetta lived in, but that was okay! I just took pictures of two doors down in each direction just to be sure! Just being on the same street was enough.

The best part was that we think there are still distant relatives living on that street. Sal’s last name is Ferro, and all the names listed on the intercom for #16 were: Ferro, Ferro and Ferro! We did not knock on the door, but an old woman next door peered out at us, probably wondering why Americans were leering nearby! A younger woman who spoke English helped translate for us, and from what we understood, the woman said she knew and remembered Sal, and she was related to the family by marriage.

In the main square of Ragusa, with the Duomo San Giorgio behind me, we took photos of me posing with a photo of my grandpa on his wedding day with his mother, Concetta. That, and me on Via Sant’ Alberto, are perhaps the most special photos I will ever get a chance to take.

We explored many churches, scenic overlooks, and shopped to our hearts content. Again, because Ragusa is on a cliff, most of the streets consisted of stairs. We visited one church, Saint Maria delle Scalle, which translated into English, is Saint Mary of the Stairs. It was on Via Scale, which means Stair Street! By the end of the day, my iPhone had calculated that I climbed 38 floors!

By the time we drove into Catania to meet up with our tour group, we all commented how we all felt so fulfilled, and we couldn’t believe there was still a whole week left of the trip.

I have never done a trip with a tour guide before, and while I enjoyed it, I can’t say that I would do it again, unless if maybe I’m in a country in the future where I would feel safer with a local guide.

Our tour guide Placido was knowledgeable, and funny too. We were in a small group of about 15, and we all got along well with everyone. It was an English speaking tour, so half of us were Americans, the other half Australians.

My one fear about being on a tour was that I would feel rushed. If you know me at all, you’d know that I want to take tons of photos of a place we’re in, as well as a GoPro video, and still have plenty of time to take it all in with my own eyes. This was never a problem. Whew. We were given plenty of free time in each place we visited.

The biggest downside to the trip (which wasn’t that bad after all) were the dinners. The booking site said a “fixed menu” for dinner. We understood that to mean maybe 3-4 choices. However, we realized that we were given a plate, and that is what we had to eat. Each meal was two courses and a dessert. Sometimes I only liked what was on one plate, but then I was full enough so that the second plate did not matter. Most meals were seafood, due to being in the Mediterranean, so we asked if there was an alternative meal we could have, which was usually pasta. Aunt Susie and I are not always okay with seafood, but we are always okay with pasta! I did have one mild, white fish called Dentice, which I really enjoyed.

Another downside to being with a tour, if you’re an introvert like Derek and I, is just being around a large group of people ALL THE TIME. Some of the best times of the trip were when we had the free time and it was just the four of us. By the time we had dinner at the end of the day, which was really late for us, I was not really in the mood to converse with anyone!

My two favorite things we did on the tour were the climb up Mt. Etna, and the day in Cefalu, (pronounced Che-fa-loo).

We were told to bundle up for the time on Mt. Enta, but we did not expect it to be that cold and windy! Most people on our tour did a quick walk up the crater and then said, “nope, I’m done” and went back inside the bar to have a cup of hot chocolate. I don’t tolerate cold well, but I was in Sicily on a volcano, damnit! I am going to stay out as long as I can, and walk around the entire crater! It felt like we were walking on the moon. We went 1,900 meters up, or about 6,200 feet. We learned that there are five different craters of Mt. Etna. Two days later, one of the craters erupted! Mt. Etna is an active volcano, and this happens quite often. I am glad it waited two days!

Cefalu is a town on the northern coast of Sicily, and where I first dipped my toes in the Mediterranean. I cried tears of joy! The water was a clear shade of turquoise – one of my favorite colors in nature. We stayed on the beach for about an hour, and aside from my time in Ragusa, this was my happiest moment of the trip. Cefalu is also where I had my best meal, a plate of gnocchi for lunch.

Other highlights and random musings from the trip:

We spent a lot of time on the coach bus traveling from city to city, however, Sicily is a beautiful country, and we did plenty of sightseeing from the bus windows.

Sicily is the land of the lemons, especially in the Mt. Etna region, due to the fertile soil. Sicily is also known for blood oranges, almonds and olives.

We saw many beautiful churches. One of my favorites was the Palatine Chapel, in Palermo, the royal chapel of the Norman kings of Sicily. It dates back to the 1100s! It was amazing to be able to walk through something so old. The inside was all gilded gold with mosaics. Another interesting church was La Martorana, where an nuns at an old covenant invented marzipan! I have always loved marzipan, and I never knew it was a Sicilian specialty!

We also did a bunch of food tastings throughout the tour. My favorites were the almond granita, which is like sorbet, and brioche, which is a sweet bread. We also had a cheese and sausage tasting in Ragusa. I ate everything on my plate, it was delicious, including a piece of donkey sausage! We also watched a small cooking demonstration, where a chef showed us how to make the different types of pasta, which we then enjoyed afterwards.

Also food related, we got the chance to walk through a few food markets, which was an experience in itself. I wish we had time to purchase some of the goods!

We saw many different Greek ruins, first at the Selinunte Archaeological Park and then the Valley of the Temples. We also visited Villa Romana del Casale, a well preserved 4th century AD villa, which was buried for many many years due to a landslide. My favorite piece of architecture was the theater in Taormina, with a view of the sea down below.

What I found to be the most interesting about Sicily’s history is that it was conquered many times by many different groups of people. It was fascinating to be in Italy, and yet see just as much Greek and Arab architecture as Roman.

I am sure I am forgetting many details. I could go on for many more paragraphs, but I’ll end it here. In short, it was a trip of a lifetime!

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Derek’s graduation

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Derek graduated from the University of Houston with a MFA (Master’s of Fine Arts) in graphic design on May 10. It was a three-year program, so it’s been a long time coming. Derek would tell you that the three years went by too fast, but I would tell you that it was entirely too slow. But overall, looking back, it flew by like *snaps fingers*

The school had a live stream of the ceremony, so family back home got to watch it as well. In fact, Derek somehow made into just about every single camera shot. I was getting texts from my mom throughout the ceremony: “I can see Derek!” “I can see him again!” It made them feel like they were actually there in the audience.

The ceremony went by in a blur. At this point, over a month later, I cannot remember much of what was said. I can tell you that Chandra Wilson, who plays Dr. Bailey on Grey’s Anatomy (one of my favorite shows!) was the commencement speaker! That was exciting in itself.

I can tell you that I did cry, a lot! I got a seat right on the floor in the front row, and Derek walked right past me during the opening of the ceremony. I managed to hold it together while I snapped a few photos, and then I lost it. Buckets of tears! Good tears though.

Now we’re in a strange limbo, while we wait for Derek to get a job. I hope everything works out for the best; he has worked so hard.

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Instacart

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Two weeks ago I tried Instacart for the first time. I am conflicted about it.

For those who do not know, Instacart is an online delivery service for groceries. You sign up, put in your zipcode, and it shows you which stores are available to shop from in your area.

I was curious and checked out some the zipcodes we lived in in rural Pennsylvania, and Instacart is not available there (and probably will never be available.) It seems to be a city thing, at least for now.

I selected Kroger and “shopped” for all of the usual things I normally buy. I selected a within 5 hour window delivery. There are other delivery time options with varying prices.

I’ll admit, I had some anxiety going into it. For some of the things selected, a pop up window came up telling me that the item is sometimes sold out, and to please select a replacement, just in case. I think this is easier to wrap your head around when you’re actually at the grocery store yourself.

I signed up for text message notifications, and I was sent a text that Philip was shopping our order. A couple of times he texted me that an item I wanted wasn’t available, and would I like this instead? That was a nice feature.

A few hours later, he pulled up in front of our apartment, and handed us all of the bags. That was it, an easy transaction.

The one big downfall to all of this is that I ended up spending $30 over budget! I have a budget that I stick to for each shopping trip, and I am usually well under that amount, so I was surprised to see such a high number.

Now, this included a service fee, a delivery fee and a tip for the shopper. Supposedly if you buy an annual membership, the fees go away. But then you’re spending the money on the membership fee. It seems like the only option is for time and convenience to be gained, but money to be lost. Right now we do not have the money to pay the membership fee up front. I am also assuming that the grocery prices are higher per item through Instacart compared to in-store.

Other people I have talked to said that they do not see much of a price difference because shopping online saves them from impulse buys. I’ve never had a problem with this myself, usually planning all of my meals out ahead of time.

I think it is a good thing for people who are truly too busy and cannot afford the time to go to the store, but I think I will just keep shopping at the grocery store myself to keep costs down.

Someone suggested to me that I use Walmart grocery delivery. Same concept, but you go to the store and they put the groceries in your truck for you. For me personally, I think this isn’t worth it, unless you lived close to a Walmart. My closest super-Walmart is about 10 minutes away, more like 20 with traffic, so I might as well just stay there and do the shopping myself.

Have you used these delivery services before? What do you think?

Arboretum’s new Ravine Trail

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Derek and I go to the Houston Arboretum and Nature Center all the time. It is one of our favorite places in Houston. It is a good place to get away from the “city life.”

Last Friday I saw the Arboretum post on Facebook that their new Ravine Trail was open to the public. It was a beautiful day so Derek and I headed that way.

The Ravine Trail was always there, but its been closed for the last three years, and closed for eight out of the last 13 years.

It was closed because it was previously unsafe to the public. The trail goes over a ravine and it has experienced flooding and erosion.

The trail is different than the others at the Arboretum. This trail is a switch back trail with changes in elevation. There are two bridges that go over the ravine and the views are nice. When we were looking at the ravine we saw a snake trying to eat some fish!

I was able to write about the new trail for work. I am glad that I was able to use the photos I took for the article. You can read it here: https://www.chron.com/neighborhood/memorial/news/article/Houston-Arboretum-Nature-Center-opens-new-13807184.php

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Reflection and worries – part 2

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A few months ago Derek started the process of applying for professor jobs. He applied to one in a semi-rural snowy mountain town, a place that I wasn’t too sure I’d be happy living in. Derek got a call back a day later, and my anxiety shot up. You can read about that here: https://texastalesblog.wordpress.com/2019/01/10/reflection-and-worries/

Well, nothing more came from that interview, but there have been other opportunities since then. Each week my anxieties change. I wish I could be in the present and not worry about the future. What is going to happen will happen. Easier said than done.

Derek applied to a few schools in December and January. Aside from that one call back, we didn’t hear anything.

There was one school and place, not in Texas, that I would have been ecstatic to move to. Derek heard back from that school, and was told “no, however…” It turns out that this school thinks Derek is a good fit for a two-year fellowship. A fellowship at a large school such as this one would really set Derek’s career off. The deadline is Monday, and Derek completed the application for that one last week. My thoughts change about this job possibility almost daily. I would love to move there, but I have reservations about it being only two years. What would happen after that? I’m ready for some long-term stability.

He also applied to a school right here in Houston. That was back in February. I have no patience. I feel like he should have heard back from now, but multiple people have told me that academia is “slow.”

We thought that the round of job openings for professorships were over after the January deadlines. So we thought, maybe a teaching job wasn’t going to happen for Derek right away. However, a few more have been opening up recently. It makes sense, schools probably know of a lot more openings now. Teachers decide to move on or retire by the end of each school year. He has a few in mind that he will apply to once he graduates, which is a week and a half way.

At least I can say that I feel better about the possibility of moving to these places instead of the snowy mountain town, but this doesn’t change the fact that I would prefer to stay in Houston. Derek will apply to some design firms right here in Houston, just in case none of the professor jobs work out.

We have no idea what will happen. I feel like when I reserve myself to thinking that we’ll leave, that’s when we’ll end up staying, and vise versa.

I have been putting a mental list together of some of the easier things we want to do in Houston this summer if we have to leave by mid-July (Most start dates for professor jobs are August 1). Go to NASA, Brazos Bend State Park, etc. Some of the bigger things won’t be plausible, like weekend trips to Dallas and Austin. I am comforting myself some by reminding myself that we could always take a week long vacation from where ever we live in the future and visit both Dallas and Austin. The two cities are not disappearing any time soon.

I am quickly losing patience. I hope we hear back from some places, even if its bad news, soon. I just want to know for sure or not what will happen to us. Stay tuned.